The only way to grow is through commitment to yourself. To honouring who you are individually. This makes you become a better person. Someone who knows themselves despite others telling them that they are weak or that they are not allowed to become who they want to be. For God has the answers that you are calling out for. He knows you as no one else does. Find it within you to grow this love you have already inside to even greater heights, to love the people who don’t love themselves. To follow your pathway and find the love you seek that is already inside. Go to God with your heart open and seek the fear to be erased with his love. All is well now. You are loved.